Hey. My name is Jd I'm 18, I'm from newcastle.
This blog is for people who need a little extra guidance, or advice.
I write from a girls perspective quite a lot, but I also write from a boys.
Feel free to ask any questions you have.
I'm always willing to help.
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Anonymous asked: What are you supposed to do when you have a crush on someone and it's mutual, and you both know about the other one's feeling but nothing happens? I mean, it's a really weird and awkward situation. We aren't friends but we aren't like gf/bf neither. We can't properly talk about it because he gets really embarressed and I feel bad to see him like this. I don't know what to do anymore, it has been this way for a year. Sometimes I just assume I'm not good enough for him and I may should forget him. Why don’t you just say look we both like each other, and I think we should be in a relationship. Because sometimes it just takes one of you to speak out. |
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Anonymous asked: Why do you refer to yourself as 'we'? You bipolar or something? It’s just habit, I had someone helping out for a little while and I started saying we, and it stuck. Sorry if it upsets you or anything like that. |
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Anonymous asked: Hello there! So I have been having some issues lately. I just feel like I am not truly happy. I have great friends and family, but I feel like something is missing. I just wish I could find something in life that makes me happy, but I am not really good at anything in life. You’re probably very young, and struggling to find what you want to do, or what makes you happy. People go through patches of being unhappy, and not knowing what to do. Eventually you will find it, it’s not for me or anyone to tell you what to do to be happy, you need to figure that out for yourself. |
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Anonymous asked: what would you do if you had found the love of your life,but for some reasons,y'all broke up. now you realize he took everything and no matter hoe you try you can't love anyone like how you loved him.you've tried for months to forget him and move on but you find yourself looking for him.he tells you he dsnt love you anymore but says he also knows he cant feel the same way for anyone anymore. Its hard, cos he resents you now,and you think he still does love you, but circumstances are not the same Love is different for every single person and every single relationship. There is no point going into a relationship thinking I want to love this person like I did my ex. What you want to think is, this relationship will be better than all my others, I’ll be better, and our love will be stronger. I was with a girl for near enough 2 years, and I always think back to her, and what we used to be. You should never forget him, but you should never want to recreate that. You want to make something better. You’re never going to get over him fully. you were in love, and love doesn’t change, you either love someone, or you never did. |
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Anonymous asked: I'm struggling. I don't have any motivation. I was a bright student but now i've lost all the fire in me to study hard and now i don't even know why i have to wake up in the morning. I find it extremely hard to live with it. I desperately want to have something to motivate me but i don't know, it goes away. I've tried to write all the goals that are worth to fight for. I've repeated it countless times in my head but it didn't work. It really stress me and i'm frustrated. I'm angry with myself. You should motivate yourself, you should strive to be the best you can be. A reason to get up in the morning is because you have a bright amazing future a head of you, life is a journey, and we have to get out of bed to discover it. You need to push yourself to study and to get good grades because like it or not those grades will decide your future. Sometimes it’s good just to talk to people about these things, and to find out it’s not just you, other people feel that way. |
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Anonymous asked: what are you supposed to do when you can't stop thinking about someone, when all you can do is think about the good times you had with them but they only think about the bad times. What are you supposed to do when you are totally inlove with someone and they don't feel the same way? That’s the thing about love, it needs to be mutual. You can not make someone love you as much as you want too. Sometimes people have different perspectives on things. What you think was amazing they might not. I’ve been through this, and as hard as it is. You have to move on, holding onto the past is not a healthy thing to do. |
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Anonymous asked: why are you never online anymore? :( I’ve had a lot of work to do lately. I’m really sorry I haven’t been able to get on. I’ll be on properly within the next few days. |
